This Mothers Day post is from the way back of time, but it still keeps. To all the Mamas out there . . Happy You Day.
Peace and love
I remember walking you home from school. We’d stop by the park and I’d push you on the swings. We’d fill our faces with chocolate bars so perilously close to supper, because we could. And then we’d laugh at having broken with such frivolous convention. We’d hike to the supermarket and trade knowing winks, as if we had committed high treason on the butcher with our chocolatey smiles.
I’d haul the heavy bags home as we talked about the Beatles and the travails of kindergarten. You were my first girl. Hey, I was rather mature for my age, and you needed a five year old best friend. You needed to know what it was to feel young. God knows you had so much of it stolen from you.
I’d tell you how beautiful you looked and how great you smelled. Compliment your shoes. Hold the door. We’d make dinner. Dad, absent; the hours with him were dissolving as work took him away from us more and more. So it was you and me. You taught me to cook. Give foot rubs. Dance. All the essentials for a boy who was just beginning to marvel at the wonders of a girl.
I was the man of the house whenever he was away, and you made me earn it. Cause a Catholic girl always does. I loved the time we spent alone, because it gave me the chance to steal that amazing laugh you possessed. I wish dad would’ve warned me about that laugh. To this day, a woman’s laugh holds a most deliciously intoxicating mystery for me. Yours was childhood, the one you never got to unwrap because you were too busy growing up, too soon. I knew enough to know too much. It’s why I beckoned that laugh whenever I could. To summon the little girl away from the primitive conclusions of this world for a little while.
Thank you for teaching me how to throw a baseball . . . how to set a table . . . how to love a woman . . . thank you for that silent conversation we shared when you came to visit me in the hospital, a conversation I might never match with spoken word if I live to 100. Thank you for the advice you would impart whenever I went searching for the answers to a woman’s heart, like the time you told me “If it was that easy to figure out a woman, there’d be no need for alcohol.”
My little girl has a middle name that comes from you, but that’s not all she carries of you. She carries your sense of humor, your honesty, your grace. And my son has your persistence and that wholesome sense of purpose that makes him my twelve year old role model.
Because of you, I spend a small fortune on Mothers Day cards. I have my own personal “Mothers Club”, and you are the reason why I lean on them so hard and love them so completely. Because of you.
You taught me that life isn’t about having all the answers. Not when comfortable shoes are so much more important.
There is a thank you in every conversation we share. But here’s one for the hell of it.
Oh, Marco,
This is so beautiful. I can’t see through the tears. Your mother is blessed to have a son such as you, with such an eloquent pen to express your love for her.
Lotsa love,
Dale
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Dale, Q, Mama . . .
May you be blessed with love and kindness for being the kick ass mama in knee high boots that you are.
Your boys are blessed with a mama that keeps on keeping on, with beauty and strength and heart and soul. Holding to the memories whilst providing new ones for them to take along.
Peace, love and Happy Mothers Day
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You are the best.
Thank you. Why am I a mess, suddenly?
MWAH!
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No, U are the best!
A beautiful mess. 🙂
MUAH!!
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U are sweet and cooky…
I’ll take it!
😘
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Guilty as charged.
And okay then . . glad you accept the kookiness!
😘
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I had pressed ‘send’ before realising I spelt kooky with a ‘c’… oy.
I more than accept it, even if I can’t spell it! 😉
😘
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I thought your spelling meant that I was tasty too. 😉
😘
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There is that… but yanno, some things are best left on the down low 😉
😘
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Shoop!
Forgot all about the QT there for a moment . . my bad. Which means good . . which means . . yeah, bad.
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Hahaha!!
All goood in its badness…
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Thought you might say that . . .
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You know me well.
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Ya think?
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I think.
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Or do you know?
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K. I know.
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Lucky guy, you, to have a mama like that. I’m in touch with the laughter thing (but got that from my dad). There’s a power that just can’t be matched or explained.
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You said it all, T-Siz. 🙂
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Marco,
Literally, without descriptive words to express . . .
Bravo! Just perfect, truly!
Pax
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Thank you kindly, Billy Boy.
To leave you descriptive wordless is a wonderful compliment indeed!
Love and pax
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Such a beautiful, heartfelt ode to Mama. I love it! All little boys should be so blessed (and little girls, too).
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Thank you Eilene!
Blessings and love. 🙂
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Such a lovely post!
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Thank you so much, OG!
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You’re welcome!
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🙂
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Eloquently done and for all mothers past, present, and future … and your long-running streak of no sarcasm rolls on
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LOL, you noticed that too huh? My probation officer would be proud.
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Oh yes … no sarcasm in any of your posts or comments.
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I couldn’t have done it without you, Frank.
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Thank you, kind sir.
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As a former sarcastic individual of some acclaim yourself, you understand the daily struggle only too well . . .
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I can’t recall ever being sarcastic … but will check a definition.
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Oh man, I’m sorry. I might have confused you with John. Jeez . . . this is awkward. Let me make it up to you. Okay . . how about this? I’ll root for the Reds five times this season. Games of your choosing. Unless they’re playing the Yankees, or going up against Madison Bumgarner or Noah Syndergard. Deal?
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LOL …. Reds had Bumgarner beat yesterday, then let it get away. Last time they faced Syndergard, he shut them out 1-0 and homered. Meanwhile, in terms of games back, Reds are still in single digits – a good thing – especially considering bats have been pathetic. I’m worry about the bullpen wearing out.
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Fun fact. I was gifted a Madison Bumgarner shirt from a lady friend I was with at the time of the Royals/Giants World Series. I wear it from time to time, since it’s NOT a jersey.
Going to see the Yanks on Saturday against the Rays. Tampa is tough, it should be a good game.
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Ah ha! Enjoy the game. I haven’t been to a Reds game yet – but will – just don’t know when. Probably a short-notice decision.
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I just wish there weren’t so many Yankees on the IL. But I will get to see Gleyber Torres, hopefully.
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At least your team is still in the thick of it – even banged up!
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It’s going to be a good race. The Rays are no fluke, the Sawx are back on track and the Yankees will start getting their guys back.
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… .and Toronto is good enough to get a streak going … and then there’s Baltimore.
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Yeah, I think Toronto is a year away from making noise. But they will certainly be fun to watch. And as for the Orioles, Camden Yards is a nice day trip.
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What a super message, Marc. All the love flows through every word. 😊
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Thank you John. Much appreciated. 🙂
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😊
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I adore this… .really gorgeous, Marc.
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Thank you Deb! 🙂
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🤗
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Aww, such a sweet piece! 😍
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Thank you Monika! 🙂
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Wow. Thanks for making the strong girl cry. I didn’t know you had it under that snarky exterior 😛 this was a sweet piece.
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Every now and again, it comes through. 🙂
Thank you Sassy.
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This was really beautiful. Your writing has so many layers to it. You’re E.L. Doctorow, Pat Conroy, a breath of Sedaris with a little Kerouac tossed in. Jesus…and a little him too.
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Oh. My Gawd SB.
That’s moiderer’s row right there.
I’m just . . . whoa.
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It’s true. There are bloggers and then there are writers. Youes a writa’ Mr. Imma.
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If I change my address for writing, you’ve GOT to come along. Thank you for the love. 🙂
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I’m packing.
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Now we’re talking.
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Mr. Imma gets an A in cheery banter.
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You caught me on a good day. 🙂
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No, No..you always lob it over the net.
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If you say so. 😉
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I do.
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🙂
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Dude. Ohhhhh. Dude. I hadn’t read it before. This was so amazing. Had I read on mama’s day I would have lost it! But you’re pulling at my heart with this on any day. Every mom tries to be this kind of mom but not everyone makes it. You’re mom sounds awesome … the kind that inspires songwriters to crush it with that song that makes everyone cry because that mom is milk and cookies. I’m still glad I got a chance to read it. Have a good weekend!!
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There you are again Cali!
I’m glad you caught this piece. Now we have something in common huh? I mean, other than our love of Pat Riley. You write so beautifully for Papa while I do the same for mi Mama.
Enjoy the sun and surf!
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Dude the way you talk about your mom is sooooooo touching and I can tell how amazing this person is and I only hope to reach a bit of that with my kids. Plus your kids were able to inherit pieces of her spirit and name. Beautifully written! Hope you have a great Father’s Day Weekend!
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Thank you so much Cali!
And will do. 🙂
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